Hi, everyone.
Sorry for the lack of posts as i had been busy Lately. Today i am going to talk about a common topic. Singaporeans' lack of moral values, public awareness and how they are not so civic minded.
As a Singaporean, i feel shameful.
Now, don't get me wrong. I did not say i am shameful to be a Singaporean!
But yes, indeed, indeed i feel shameful. Now you may ask, you may ponder, why do i feel shameful. As much as i want to say no, i had to answer this with this phrase, "Singaporeans' behavior in public".
Now you may ask, why? What is wrong with Singaporeans' behavior in public? Let me tell you, there are so many problems with the Singaporeans in public that i was shell shocked. I was amazed to have read an article on this topic in school and i investigated further on the net, only to find more and more articles appearing commenting on Singaporeans' behaviour in public. I was quite frustrated to find that Singaporeans lack such basic courtesy when we are ranked among the highest for being courteous. On the actual fact, numbers don't lie. We seriously needed improvement.
Firstly, i want to share on the topic of littering. Now, now, people, don't get confused. You must be thinking, littering? Yes, littering. Littering has always been a severe problem for Singapore. Yes, i know. Singapore is a "garden city", with no litters and people are doing their job to dispose litter properly, keeping it a clean and conducive environment, and you know what, there are litters everywhere.
Wake up people!
Now is not the time to spread lies about Singapore! Singapore, as it is now and as it has always been, is filled with litter everywhere. There are cigarettes butts in the mud, plastic bags and wrappers flying in the air, even loads of rubbish flowing through rivers, especially the Singapore river! Singapore river is supposed to be a clean river. How could it be filled with rubbish? It is all Singaporeans' fault.
Singaporeans' fault.
No one, no one should have taken up the blame except for the citizens of Singapore, who promised to keep Singapore a clean and conducive environment for everyone usage.. Look at the condition now. Are they keeping their promise? Well, how about no. Singaporeans really disappoint me. What does this show? This shows how uncivilized Singaporeans are, how they lack in public awareness, how they are willing to achieve benefits for themselves instead of willing to care for the country, care for the nation, care for Singapore, in which they are born in. Singaporeans, no matter how bad they are, should at least be grateful to Singapore by returning the favor and not add fuel to the fire. Do we have a sense of respect for Singapore? Do we care to stop for a moment and think how difficult it is for the cleaners to clear our rubbish? Do we even spend time to consider if what we did was wrong?
Singapore is dependent on tourism for our economy. If the tourists see how much littler there is on the ground, what would be their impression of Singapore? How disappointed would they be? And when they feel disappointed, what are the chances, what are the chances of they coming to Singapore again or telling their friends something good about Singapore? Very very little. Singapore had always been considered as an advanced, a respectable and clean city. How could we live up to our reputation if we continue doing this? It is always the good side of Singapore being shown on TV, magazines, newspapers. Wake up! We could not only appreciate our reputation and sit there basking in the sunlight. We must look at the big picture, the problems of Singapore!
Singaporeans are too self centered, too selfish, too lazy, too unthoughtful, too brave, too despicable, too not respectful, too atrocious! How could we throw rubbish on the floor, when the rubbish bin is just a few feet away? How could we throw rubbish on the floor, when Singapore is the very country we were born in? How could we throw rubbish on the floor, when so much effort are put in to clear those rubbish? How could we throw rubbish on the floor, when there are so many expectant tourists looking forward to see Singapore? How could we throw litter on the floor, you tell me? How could we......
Now, now, as much as i hate to say this, littering is not Singapore's only problem. There are more major ones.
For example, Singaporeans' lack of civic mindedness. A very simple topic, yet a very disappointing one for
Singaporeans. Singaporeans' problems are that we are too
kiasu in many ways. We want the best for ourselves and do not care about the welfare of others. What do i mean by this?
Very simple.
For example, in public transport, it is very obvious and apparent that Singaporeans lack this manners and civic mindedness. Now you may ask me, in what ways do we lack those? Well, how many instances have you seen people giving up their seats to the elderly, reaching out a hand to assist the elderly in movement, or helping the disabled people, pregnant ladies or elderly? I bet that these instances are very rare.
There was this one time, that i was on the bus going to school. As it was the new kind of bus, it has four seats reserved for the disabled, pregnant women, and elderly on the left side of the bus and 3 seats on the right. On the next stop, a few people boarded the bus. There is one free seat on each side of the reserved seats. An old and fragile lady carrying grocery bags was walking towards one of the seats and was preparing to sit down. However, before she could even react, a teenager around my age sat down on that particular seat and began untangling his earphones, not even paying attention to the helpless lady. When she turned around and prepare to sit at the free seat on the right, a school girl sat down, snatching away her chance of sitting down. At that time, everyone was watching the whole incident with disapproval. However, no one dared to ask the girl or the teen to stand up and give away the seat to the lady. I was tempted but i was too shy at that time. Now i regretted it. The old lady then was really helpless and looked tired out. She could not find any more seats, and guess what? Another elderly lady stood up from the reserved seat and gave it up to the old lady. The old lady thanked the other elderly and sat down.
From this, i am sure that all of you would find how awful Singaporeans' behaviour are. Okay, okay, lets not even talk about how Singaporeans are unwilling to give up their seats to the elderly. If Singaporeans do not give up their seats, then i do not really think so bad of them as most of them are too shy. However, this is a more severe case. This is a complete
mistreating of the elderly! The teens just literally snatched the whole seat away from the elderly, not even bothering to look at their surroundings or bothering to look at the signs that read the seats are reserved for the elderly. They just wanted to get the seat for their own good, they are just too
kiasu. They should at least look at the surroundings!
Furthermore, an elderly gave up her seat for another elderly! How ridiculous does that sound? That just shows how bad our moral values and awareness are. No matter how adamant we are or how unwilling we are to give up our seats, we should not let an elderly giving up her seat for another elderly. This is very shameful to our society at large. Everyone here is the culprit. Even i am. We should at least pluck up the courage to tell the teens to give up their seats, but no one did that. This just shows how
ill mannered we are.
Singaporeans are smart, we are well educated, so why is it that we are unable to get the meaning of the posters,
flyers, advertisements and help the public in one way or another?
About giving up seats, i think i do not have to rant on anymore. You all should get the message.
Singaporeans are just too
kiasu, no matter what thing we also need to compete, and because of this, because we wanted things for our own
personal good, we often forget about the environment. We do things our way, without civic
mindedness, with just ourselves in mind. How disappointing......
Singaporeans are also too loud in public. Sometimes i board a bus, the first thing i hear is not my e z link card being tapped, but the shouting of several people, or one person for that matter. Sometimes they shout out excitedly, wanting to congratulate people, or having won something; sometimes they curse swear words in different dialects, angry at people; sometimes they are just having loud conversations with their friends. By doing that, Singaporeans are being too selfish as the bus is being shared by many and so many people will get distracted by their loud voices.I know, i know, as compared to china, we are very good already. But come on people, be realistic, we should aim higher, compare with countries that are better, and learn from them!
Even there are several times whereby people stick their legs out and block peoples' way of moving, people put their bags on the seats and prevent people from sitting....... So on and so forth.
Are we really like this? Are Singaporeans' really this self centred? Does Singaporeans really lack moral values?
Think about it ourselves, reflect upon it and i hope that we can observe this and
realise our mistakes, and change for the better.
What do you think?